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General => General Discussion and ??? => Topic started by: Donnie on October 03, 2014, 06:22:58 PM
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Last summer I did a job for a family reunion. The lady that I dealt with was very nice. I did a lot of hand holding and lot of phone time. It turned out to be more job than I bargained for... Less shirts than promised but I did charge more. Towards the end I detected some family squabbling and listen to a couple of sob stories. We got the shirts done and got paid with a money order. Happy ending... Not so fast. I get a call from a guy claiming to be a "family elder" (what ever the f'ck that is) and wants a copy of the invoice. At first I said I'll email it and he doesn't do email. I took down his addy and told him I'll mail it. Now I'm thinking, I didn't do biz with him so now I'll just blow it off. He calls again and so I call the lady I dealt with. She says don't send the old goat anything. I'll handle it. I'm loyal to the people who I do biz with. So do I wait for a legal order?
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That's what I would do.
I'd possibly tell the guy (if I liked him and WANTED to help him out) that I can QUOTE you for a similar job if you need. :)
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I wonder if the "elder" thinks she claimed that she paid a little more and pocketed some cash. ::)
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That's what I'm thinking Andy. If she did, I don't condone it but that's not my problem, yet.
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Legally, if he's not the one that placed the order, he's not entitled to see anything. It's not his order. It's not his business.
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I just feel obligated to the people who contracted the work. Now, if they want to go through the trouble of hiring an attorney to make it other wise, that's a different story.
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And for the record, next year I'm too damn busy at twice the price.
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nothing will come of it. legal fees will cost more than it's worth
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I listen to whomever has the money. anyone else can take it up with that person.
I scored a nice account for a sports complex, my neighbor happens to be the swim coach on. He ordered some shirts and the club paid for those through their corp account, tax exempt. on the side, he also wanted decals for all the parents cars, so we made them, HE paid cash....well the manager of the whole place came in and told me NOT to make the decals. I said He paid for them personally, I have to produce them...she reamed me out for about two days, calling and saying everyone in town will never do business with me again, blah blah blah....she demanded to see the invoices and I directed her to the coach...she STILL hates me...we ended up tossing out about 100 decals and the coach eventually got squeezed out of a job and I lost the account....she happens to be my daughters swim coach and has no idea it's me haha....
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I am so glad 95% of my sales are B to B.....Very few schools, churches, family reunions, etc.....And most importantly very few PITAs like this....
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This last one smells more like possible unauthorized use of name or logo
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Sounds like the old guy (wait a minute, I'm one of those) has delusions of grandeur. As said, you only have to deal with the person who hired you, it's none of his business.
Steve
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Sounds like the old guy (wait a minute, I'm one of those) has delusions of grandeur. As said, you only have to deal with the person who hired you, it's none of his business.
Steve
Not to cast aspersions on Donnie's fine home state of Oklahoma, but if I let my mind wander at all, I get visions of the hill folk in one of those butcher/slasher movies, and I might not want to cross "the family elders" :o
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Sounds like the old guy (wait a minute, I'm one of those) has delusions of grandeur. As said, you only have to deal with the person who hired you, it's none of his business.
Steve
Not to cast aspersions on Donnie's fine home state of Oklahoma, but if I let my mind wander at all, I get visions of the hill folk in one of those butcher/slasher movies, and I might not want to cross "the family elders" :o
Don't think that I have not heard banjo music and pig squealing in my head. The "elder's" phone is out of Kansas though, just across the border. Too close for comfort.
Interesting side note, I ran into the local newspaper guy and he asked me if I had received a call from a guy in Kansas who had called the paper office looking for the name of my company. He gave him the name of the company but not my number. I assume he called information. I told Mark, the paper guy, "F you very much." Anyway, I blocked his number and will proceed with a go screw yourself position until he shows up. :o
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You would think the newspaper guy would have told him that's not his job, use the internet. Geez, it's not like you're in a secret bunker a mile underground... or are you? (diminished chord) I'm outta here, have a good weekend everyone.
Steve
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Ha, the elder does not have "email". So yeah, banjo music.
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Hi Donnie!
I haven't seen anything on this thread for a while. Did it turn out okay?
Stan (in Wichita)
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no no no send him nothing.....you have a contarct with the person who you worked with and took the money from.
He has to take legal action with her not you if he wants to be a PITA. You owe him no more info on this order than you owe him on any other order you task in your shop. He might be putting up the cash for the shirts but he is not drinking at your bar. What would you tell him if he demanded every other comparable invoice you ever issued to see if you charged them the same relative (no punn intended) price.
Your only exposure here is a testimony in court if he decides to sue the lady you did business with.
Disclaimer... I am not a lawyer just a retired negotiator formally with the Mothers And Fathers Italian Association.
mooseman
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Disclaimer... I am not a lawyer just a retired negotiator formally with the Mothers And Fathers Italian Association.
mooseman
Too funny ;D
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Hi Donnie!
I haven't seen anything on this thread for a while. Did it turn out okay?
Stan (in Wichita)
Crickets... after I blocked the Elder's Phone.